Throughout life, people try and gain
the attention of those around them for various reasons. Maybe its
trying to gain the attention of someone that you like by being
flirtatious. In the case of an aspiring athlete, it's by sending
letters and performing well when scouts
come to watch. In the case of
a potential boss, it's presenting oneself professionally and
providing an adequate resume. Children will even act out positively
and negatively in order to gain the attention of their parents,
teachers, and their peers. These are all understandable—and
natural—parts of life. What I do NOT understand is
pretending to have a chronic, incurable, or terminal illness in order
to gain the attention of anyone.
You think I'm joking, right? I'm not.
Recently, not far from where I live, a
woman was caught for faking having cancer. She duped friends, family,
and countless others into thinking she was terminal, when, in fact,
she was not sick with cancer at all. For what purpose? Attention. Money. Sympathy. She got what she wanted, for a time. Personally, I have come across
people on Instagram who are faking being ill with various
illnesses—and not even getting the actual definition of the illness
correct—deleting their profiles and starting over when they're
called out. Some go even as far as to tape and glue on fake feeding
tubes with string and noodles! For what purpose? Attention. Gifts. Sympathy.
My question is this: Why!?!
Why on EARTH would you willingly
invite—albeit falsely—these illnesses into your life? Why on
EARTH would you want to be like any of us? Do you know what Gastroparesis, migraines, vertigo, and IBS has given me? Urgent care visits...Emergency room visits...IV sticks...CAT scans...MRIs...countless medications...the loss of eating many foods...the implantation of a gastric neurostimulator...and SO much more. And I am one of the LUCKY ones! Chronic Illness Warriors are all women
and men who did not ASK to be ill, but, instead, became this
way by no choice of our own. We
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