Looking back to 2010, I can't believe that 6 years of my life have already gone by living with, not only Gastroparesis, but getting diagnosed with chronic vertigo and migraines in the same year, peripheral neuropathy in 2013, postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome at the beginning of 2015 and fibromyalgia at the end. It feels as though any time my feet lead me over the threshold of a doctor's office I'm given yet another diagnosis or, at the very least, the prospect of yet another one coming down the line. 
(April 2010--Doctors still didn't know what was wrong with me)
I was just barely turning 30 years old when I became ill out of the clear blue sky. My life as I knew it, working with learning handicapped children by day and interpreting for the Deaf by night came to a screeching halt and the couch and my body became one. Nurses, doctors, and specialists didn't know what to make of my triad of symptoms that happened all at once--vertigo, migraines, and vomiting. Try as they might to connect one to the other, they just WEREN'T connected. Test after test brought no answers until, finally, I was given a gastric emptying test...It gave everyone the answer::
Gastroparesis.
Even though my life had been changed for six months prior to that, it seemed permanently sealed now that I had a name attached to what was going on.
Gastroparesis.
There's permanency in knowing what your disease is called. There's no turning back. There's no take backs. There's no do overs. It's only moving forward. But that doesn't mean there's a solution. And there hasn't been for me, it's just been the addition of more conditions that, as best the doctors can tell, are as a result of Gastroparesis.
(September 2010--I had finally been diagnosed with Gastroparesis but was doing no better in terms of treatment being offered)
It would be easy to slip into Permanent Pity Party mode because of the events of the last 6 years. Trust me, a good cry and whine session happens every once and a while and then I go about my business. But taking up permanent residence in self-pity, self-loathing, or anger at others does not improve the situation. I find that a good sense of humor has helped get me through quite well.
Luckily, after a time I was able to return to my day job, though no medication or therapy was helping my Gastroparesis. Different solutions have been tried, including the gastric neurostimulator--which recently failed, but I've been able to fight my way back to some kind of normalcy as much as possible each time.
Hold out hope even when there doesn't feel like there is any. Even when the doctors don't know what to do for you and friends and family don't know what to say. Hold out hope that maybe, just maybe, tomorrow you could turn the corner and it'll be a better day.
(April 2015-Loving with the gastric neurostimulator for over a year and having been diagnosed with POTS and peripheral neuropathy)
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